Unconditional Love Understanding Uniqueness Universe Vision Wait
Wisdom
I have created a life of stepping out of the box of people’s limitations.
I call it zigging when others are zagging. Oprah
Unconditional Love (accepting ourselves and our dogs as is): I accept myself and
my dog as is for a complete day! That's a good beginning. Dogs give us a kind of
unconditional love, although, as a species they do have conditions. They accept our
flaws and imperfections. They withstand our mis-communication. Opening my eyes, I
can learn from them, creating a new awareness. "I will love you if" is not truly
love in the purest form. It is more like control. If you stay home all day and don't
chew the house, I will give you a bone (dog). If you buy me a diamond ring, I will
give you a back rub (partner). Tap into your unconditional love by doing one thing
every day that is not required, expected or has to have something given back in return.
Do this for your self too.
Understanding: I can learn something new every day. I
open my eyes to awareness of what is going on around me. I am grateful for my life,
family, friends and my dog. When I open my mind and heart, like a child playing in
a sand box or a puppy digging a hole, I discover new insights, new viewpoints, and
new ways of understanding the process of life and how things work so well. My understanding
comes from my perception. I am open to another’s perception, while still honoring
my own.
Uniqueness (no competition, no comparison -- we are all individuals): Our
DNA is uniquely our own. Even our parents and grandparents only share a portion of
their DNA with us. The mix is like no other. Each puppy in a litter of 12 is uniquely
individual. We may share some traits, beliefs, taught conditions, but in the big
picture we can create our destiny. Our thoughts become our words. Our words become
our actions. Our actions become destiny. Find something uniquely special about yourself
and your dog everyday. Maybe it is an expression, a skill, a sense of humor. Capture
that essence and let it grow and glow.
Universe: Wow is a phrase that comes to mind.
We are but an infinitesimal spec or less in this big galaxy. Trusting that there
is a plan for us is not easy. Knowing that the Universe will take care of us is beyond
comprehension at times. Anxiety about plans and stuff usually comes from our fears
that something unpleasant will happen. When we allow these concerns to take hold,
we panic. We stop living in the moment. In reality, it is the only time we have.
We begin to base our thoughts on something that may not be real. Ask yourself "Is
it true?" The Universe will not abandon us. It allows us to remain present to what
is actually going on in our lives; instead of worrying, we are able to fully and
calmly exist in the moment. We can enjoy the now. Finding peace of mind is easier
for some then others, but not out of anyone's reach if you simply ask. Clear the
clutter, clear your mind, take a walk and ask for help. The answers will come from
inside with some divine help from above ... or possibly your dog.
Vision: With love,
I see clearly in all directions. A bend in a road is not the end of the road, but
a new path. Learning from past experiences helps to create positive and successful
new ones. Our dogs have peripheral (all around) vision. I can learn from watching
my dog, imagining what they see. When I am communicating with them in an understanding
way, I can wisely see through their eyes.
Wait: To stay in place in expectation of “anything” can be difficult for many of
us. We can be impatient. On the one hand we are reminded daily of how short life
can be. On the other hand, rushing around spewing energy in all directions, without
any focus, can be deleterious. Teaching ourselves and our dogs to wait is simply
to “pause” for something good to come. Stay and wait have slightly different meanings.
Stay means don’t move for awhile or until I call you. Wait means we are on the move,
then pausing at a specific point or doorway. It is like dancing with various rhythms.
Wisdom (Guides and creates ... knowing without struggle): Trust it! In the past,
I have looked to others for reassurance, when the answer was already within. My intuition
guides me; I simply have to listen and try. All the answers to all the questions
I will ever ask are within me or attainable if I take the time to discover them.
If I don't, then maybe I didn't need the answer in the first place.
Sitting with your dog, take in a deep belly breath to the count of 8, holding for
4, and exhaling for 8. Do this a few times, imaging your refuge, dog by your side.
When you are ready, send your questions to the universe. Watch - because oftentimes
the dog will watch - the energy flow out. Respect the universe, and the mentors of
wisdom, but decide what is best for you and your dog! Raw meat may be for one dog
and singing may be for your friend. Cooked meat and veggies may be healthier for
your dog and writing a book may be your calling. Only you can decide with the information
you have.
